reciprocate

/rɪˈsɪprəkeɪt/ formal

Say it: ri-SIP-ruh-kayt

1. verb To respond to a gesture, action, or feeling by making a corresponding one.
He was grateful for their support and hoped he could reciprocate the favor someday.
2. verb To move backward and forward in a straight line.
In a steam engine, the piston reciprocates within a cylinder.

📖 Seen in the wild

She was disappointed when her kindness was not reciprocated by her new neighbors.
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✏️ reciprocate in a sentence

The company offered a generous severance package, but the gesture was not reciprocated with gratitude from the laid-off workers.
I sent her a friend request, but she hasn't reciprocated, so I guess she's not interested.
He confessed his undying love, but her silence made it painfully clear she did not reciprocate his feelings.
Our team put in extra hours to help their department meet the deadline, and we trust they will reciprocate when we're in a bind.
International relations are often built on the principle that nations will reciprocate acts of goodwill.
It's just good manners to reciprocate when someone invites you to their home for dinner.
The two leaders agreed to reciprocate by lowering trade barriers on specific imports.

🔁 Synonyms & antonyms

return repay requite match exchange correspond

return · often implies giving back the same kind of thing, like returning a favor or a call.

repay · suggests settling a debt, whether it's money or a kindness.

requite · a more literary term, often used for strong emotions like love or for acts of vengeance.

match · focuses on meeting an action or feeling with one of equal intensity or value.

Opposites: take, receive, withhold, ignore, neglect

🌱 Where it comes from

The word reciprocate traces back to the Latin word 'reciprocus', meaning 'alternating' or 'moving back and forth'. This was formed from 're-' (back) and 'pro-' (forward), perfectly capturing the idea of a two-way motion. This original sense of physical movement is still seen in mechanics, while the more common meaning applies that back-and-forth idea to social actions and feelings.

🧩 How it's used

Common patterns:

reciprocate a feelingreciprocate a favorreciprocate a gesturefail to reciprocatehappy to reciprocatenot reciprocated

Reciprocate is a more formal and precise word than 'return the favor'. It emphasizes the mutual, two-way nature of an exchange. While it can be used for any corresponding action, it most often appears in contexts of feelings (love, respect), social obligations (favors, hospitality), and formal agreements (diplomacy, business). Using it for trivial exchanges can sound overly formal or even humorous.

Word family: reciprocation, reciprocal, reciprocity

💬 Quick answers

What does reciprocate mean in simple terms?

It means to give something back in return for something you've received. This could be a favor, a feeling, or an action, creating a two-way exchange.

What's the difference between reciprocate and return?

"Return" is a general term for giving something back. "Reciprocate" is more specific, implying you are responding in kind to someone's action or feeling, such as reciprocating kindness with another act of kindness.

Is reciprocate a formal word?

Yes, it is generally considered a formal word. In casual conversation, people are more likely to use phrases like "return the favor" or "feel the same way."

Can you reciprocate a negative action?

While technically possible, it's uncommon. "Reciprocate" usually has a neutral or positive feel. For negative actions, words like "retaliate" or "avenge" are more specific and frequently used.

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